TJ and Truman have voted to go to public school.
I am still a homeschooling mom at heart and in principle -- I'm just letting them have a "trial run" and hoping they'll choose to hang out with me instead.
I always thought I was giving them a "gift" by not making them go to school... but right now they don't see it that way.
I feel confident that they'll excel no matter where they are -- I just think maybe they need a little "opposition" to realize how good they have it at home...
We're trying to get them into a couple of different charter schools -- I put in applications, but so far haven't heard anything definite. It's based on a lottery system rather than credentials or else we *know* they would get in. (the little smarties)
I made up this little agreement and made them each sign it!
I __________________ hereby declare that I have personally chosen to attend public school, starting in August 2008.
By signing this piece of paper, I agree to:
• Have a good attitude at and about school (things like getting ready in time, doing homework, being friendly to everyone, and so on)
• Stay in school until Christmas 2008 OR
• If I want to leave school BEFORE Christmas 2008, I understand that this will be a permanent decision and I can’t KEEP changing my mind.
This is out of respect to myself, my mom, and my teacher, all of whom need my consistency and cooperation in the ongoing efforts to help me gain an education.
_____________________________ _______________
signature date
_____________________________
printed name
I, mother of above signor, accept this agreement and will do my part to help him keep his agreement.
_____________________________ _______________
mom’s signature date
As far as the "opposition in all things" phrase that keeps going through my head, it started when Truman was running around with some kids on the playground -- he ran over to me and grumbled, "I'm not going to play with THAT kid anymore." I said, "That's fine! You get to pick who you want to hang out with!" But my curiosity got to me and I HAD to ask... "So, what did he do?" Truman reported: "He said that if I run after that girl, my penis will stick up. Kids shouldn't talk about penises on the playground!" I assured him that he was right and I was glad he knew how to handle it. This kid wasn't older than 6 or 7. Crazy.